Update Bonjour to do nonblocking I/O correctly. This also includes a number of error handling bugfixes (and various other improvements). This doesn't handle the scenario where a partial message is read - I need to figure out how libxml2 handles such a scenario to fix it correctly. There are also also a few quirks that I noticed and didn't get around to fixing: -We don't wait for a "</stream:stream>" from the peer before closing the socket. -We don't make sure that the peer has sent us the stream start message before starting.